Three nights in a row with no MLC talk! Not a single "I don't know" or "We've changed".
Last night we relaxed, ate dinner together, engaged in harmless chit-chat, and watched TV together. Nice, calm, evening.
Oh...and she talked to the EA OM, and actually brought me into the conversation! (Remember, he WAS an old friend of mine, too). I acted like nothing was wrong, engaged in harmless chit chat with him, as did my W. Conversation lasted less than 20 minutes. She didn't talk to him again the rest of the night.
That's big.
In fact, her conversations with him have been getting shorter and shorter over the past few days.
What changed? She's talking to ME more, because I've made myself available and receptive.
Do what works...do what works...do what works...
Me: 51 W: 50 M 24 yrs EA: since Apr 06 S22, S26, S28 ILYBNILWY:Nov 07
"It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything." Tyler Durden
