Good morning everyone! Yup Lil, I'm up early....had to beat that damn Winnie the Pooh alarm clock to the punch

Corri, You wanted me to come over here and try to give a man's POV of the sex that you and Miss IC are speaking of. So here I am....I'll try my best \:\)

Corri & Miss IC, I don't want to piss on the fire that has been created by this web-site but personally....I didn't really draw a whole lot from it as far as technique, postions etc...and I think that is where many will get tripped up on this. What I was able to draw from the site was more along the lines of a shift in focus (mine anyways) from the typical, conventional approach to sex...which to me was "ok...what can I do to give Mr. Happy & Miss Kitty pleasure? Yea, alright..that's working..Miss Kitty is purring...keep it up...keep it up....keeeeep it up...Ahhhhhh that was nice " The entire focus of this typical approach is on the Big "O" and how to get there...a destination....an expected destination!

What I was able to pull from this new (to me) approach...there are NO expectations...the Big "O" is removed from the equation....it doesn't matter if one, the other, or both don't reach it. In fact, the site kind of advocates not having an orgasim at all ({gulp} sorry, I'm not that gung ho into that) I found it more of a connection with the whole body...her's...mine...together. Cupping a breast...watching her chest rise and fall with each breath...coming in tune with her breathing...feeling her heart beat....looking into her eyes...the look in her eyes...the color of her eyes...running my fingers through her hair...caressing a leg, a shoulder, an arm....massaging a hand....a gentle touch on her cheek....talking...sharing...laughing........just playing in the sandbox...no expectations...no destinations...no rights...no wrongs...just creating on my own...watching her create...creating together...it's ok, it's all good!

Corri, I don't know what you were looking for me to come on here and say but.....there it is. You've reduced my Kill it n' Grill it....rack em' and stack em'...happiness is a large gut pile persona into...well..{FITB}

- IC

"If you can't lick em, lick em" - Ted Nugent