W comes into my office and tells me she is going to the store to pick up D12's prescription for Concerta (ADD meds). Asks if I would like her to pick up mine also. I told her that I don't need them right now as I have a few more days left, and I don't have the cash today to pay for them.
She says she just got paid and can pay for them. I tell her in a calm voice "I would rather pay for them myself, thank you".
'ok' she says.
You want her to be supportive but when she tries in a way she can you push her away.
As for the dance classes I agree with Sara - too many of my friends who are married have gone alone and have been swept of their feet by others at their dance classes and it has destroyed their M's.
Having said that, I think you seem to be doing a pretty good job of doing that to your own M by yourself Frank. I am sorry to hit you with a 2x4 but to me you sound like a petulant child enjoying being difficult. I know you are hurting but you really don't help yourself. Why not tell her to get out now and save yourself the pain and aggro of the next few months?
You go from massive ego to self pity in the same breath.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
