(((ANN))), I have to agree with Sandi on this one. I just caught up with you and that is not good. He needs some major issues worked out in his head. First the rape of his wife, then he wants you to tattoo his name on you. He sees you as property. Your a wonderful person, a loving mother and deserve better. If he is unwilling to do as you ask, then get him out of the house and get a protective order in place.
You need to be upfront with him and tell him why. Also, I would suggest having your father, brother, a friend or something in the house when you do this. He was sexually violent once, that is a step beyond physical violence, so I wouldn't risk it. Maybe do it in a public place, a starbucks or something.
Oh dear, this is deeper then I thought. You need a plan sweet girl. You shouldn't have to put up with this.
