W has filed for the D,where to from here

[HHIF]

I need to know what you guys think about the James Dobson Love Must Be Tough approach.

I have been a nice guy,doing everthing I can to keep the peace and hoping and waiting for her to wake up and call off the divorce and recommitt to our marriage,I'm not saying I love you or chasing her,but she knows I don't want a divorce and I want her back.

I'm wondering if I should stop being so friendly,tell her to do what she wants and act like I don't care,stop always being there and let her feel like I am tired of waiting.

That's kind of what the tough love approach is,like move on GAL and forget about trying to wait for her to change,don't fight the D etc.

Just thinking out loud,felt a little anger today,as she talked about our finances and attorneys.