It was a text message. That is how he communicates. We would literally go days without talking.

I know what it means, knowing him. He always would make comments that he is not giving me any control. I think he is realizing that he is losing me/baby. Worst case scenario he faces big child support and the community we live in thinks he is a schmuck. Pretty much everyone is talking about it. This is the boldest stand I have ever taken and I am sure he is a bit shocked. Normally he would send a text like the first one saying he wants to work things out and I would melt and he goes back to cake eating. I think it ticked him off that I was making him explain himself.

Honestly I am at the point where I can take it or leave it. I do love him but not at this price.

Oh, I forgot....I was at my son's wrestling match and OW showed up to watch her former stepson. First time ever she didn't make my skin crawl. Hmmmm....could it be progress?

Last edited by Startingover2; 01/18/08 03:42 AM.
Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!