Just bought a 1 way non-refundable ticket to Dtown

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So.. started a new job today. LOVE IT! My new boss is awesome, the benefits are astounding and the pay a significant increase.

Not much has changed in my sitch, hence the lack of journaling during the last week.

My wife still wants to get back together, even started talking about "where are we going to live?" etc. She even talked about renewing our vows at some point and wanted to know if I wanted anymore children. Great news!

On the other hand, OM is still living there but he sleeps in his own room. In fact, my wife has starting sleeping with our daughter for some reason in her room. Im guessing she is doing that so I wont be suspicious if she is still being intimate with OM.

Its weird because she will contact me constantly for a few days and then back off, eerily similiar to our sitch in August right before I found out about OM and her moving him in.

The last few days there has been minimal contact and I do not initiate any contact (I told her I wouldnt as long as OM was around). Basically I try and mirror the attention she gives me. If she is affectionate, Im affectionate. If she is serious, Im serious.

OM was supposed to move out on the 15th, then she said it should be this Friday. The waiting for him to be gone is killing me, Im scared that this will drag on for weeks or even months. I need him to move away so I can have closure and begin to heal, as long as he is there, I constantly wonder if she is serious about us. I cant fully commit myself to us if he is still there.

Any advice?