Who will be my Du (dude) enna?

[Burgbud]

(Mojo) And what I would say to BF or Stig would be that there are plenty of "non-crazy" people with XX chromosomes out there but you guys don't "see" those people as f*ckable females. "Crazy" = "Signaling sexual availability".

I can't speak for BF or Stig but that's not at all the case in my world. A week ago today I ran across a woman signaling sexual availability and I didn't/don't equate that with crazy. Don't get me wrong...whatever her job is requires her to move every three months and when I say "move" I mean as in moving across the country, not just over a few blocks. So obviously her crazy meter stays pretty busy but that doesn't have anything to do with sexual availability.

There was one single girl in my social circle who I thought for a long time wasn't crazy. Well, on general principles I figured she was crazy but it was pretty apparent that she liked me so I assumed that was keeping the crazy at bay. I didn't allow myself to get involved with her because we'd have ended up in more relationship than I wanted and then it would have broken off and who wants to deal with that? Anyway, she emailed last week to tell me that since her divorce (I'm paraphrasing here in the interest of time) she's been communicating with dead people, that back in September she received a message for me and that's the only time she's gotten a message that wasn't for her. Now, I'm skeptical but I think there's a lot of unexplained stuff in this world so I'm interested in what she has to say. I don't think she's certifiable by any means but nevertheless, she's clearly crazy.

Mojo, you're working against your own stated goal of getting laid regularly unless by "regularly" you meant "one weekend a month". Crazy.

The list goes on and on...


I'm kind of hurt that you guys all think that FSG is so out of my league that he must just be planning on using me for some kind of fetishtic release or sexual notch marking or something like that.

Pffft. This is a pity-party-free zone. If we applied Occam's Razor I'd say the most likely cause of his behavior is that *you're* way out of *his* league. That would explain why he's so anxious to be exclusive with a woman who lives so far away and isn't even asking him to be exclusive. Are you way out of his league?