IC, I just bought one of those "alarm" clocks that wakes you up with a light that gets gradually brighter. I'm testing it tomorrow morning.
Lil, Judging from your posts about Professor Sexy, I'm guessing that you won't be needing that alarm clock
But if the new clock does not work like you hoped, I will GLADLY pack up Winnie the Pooh and ship him overnight to ya. Winnie the Pooh just might meet the same fate as the IC's Furby! If you accidentally drop them in water on purpose...they quit talking
Interesting. I was very type A, high anxiety when I was younger and WOH. Not so much now. In that sense, being a SAHM agrees with me. I'm also not as tired as I was when I commuted and WOH, so I'm more likely to go for sex even if it's past my bedtime. I'm definitely not a supermom type. My body doesn't look as good now as it did back then, but I feel more sexual and sexy than I did then because I want to and choose to, in spite of the fact that I can never achieve that waist-to-hip ratio you wrote about before. The biggest thing that's changed is my perception of myself.
(Mojo) And what I would say to BF or Stig would be that there are plenty of "non-crazy" people with XX chromosomes out there but you guys don't "see" those people as f*ckable females. "Crazy" = "Signaling sexual availability".
I can't speak for BF or Stig but that's not at all the case in my world. A week ago today I ran across a woman signaling sexual availability and I didn't/don't equate that with crazy. Don't get me wrong...whatever her job is requires her to move every three months and when I say "move" I mean as in moving across the country, not just over a few blocks. So obviously her crazy meter stays pretty busy but that doesn't have anything to do with sexual availability.
There was one single girl in my social circle who I thought for a long time wasn't crazy. Well, on general principles I figured she was crazy but it was pretty apparent that she liked me so I assumed that was keeping the crazy at bay. I didn't allow myself to get involved with her because we'd have ended up in more relationship than I wanted and then it would have broken off and who wants to deal with that? Anyway, she emailed last week to tell me that since her divorce (I'm paraphrasing here in the interest of time) she's been communicating with dead people, that back in September she received a message for me and that's the only time she's gotten a message that wasn't for her. Now, I'm skeptical but I think there's a lot of unexplained stuff in this world so I'm interested in what she has to say. I don't think she's certifiable by any means but nevertheless, she's clearly crazy.
Mojo, you're working against your own stated goal of getting laid regularly unless by "regularly" you meant "one weekend a month". Crazy.
The list goes on and on...
I'm kind of hurt that you guys all think that FSG is so out of my league that he must just be planning on using me for some kind of fetishtic release or sexual notch marking or something like that.
Pffft. This is a pity-party-free zone. If we applied Occam's Razor I'd say the most likely cause of his behavior is that *you're* way out of *his* league. That would explain why he's so anxious to be exclusive with a woman who lives so far away and isn't even asking him to be exclusive. Are you way out of his league?
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Okay. All you people who think I am being cryptic... especially Lil, who gave me two thumbs up... my last post was to IC, to WHOM I expressly addressed my post... (ahem).... and he said he was too tired to respond, so it wasn't really me, but IC...
Mrs. Cac. ...
Have you ever laid yourself, nekkid... along side of Cac... and... not caring one wit for what he thought... allowed yourself to feel safe, sexually secure and daring, very cat-like relaxed.... and just concentrated your thoughts upon... his... oh, I don't know... arm? His jaw line? The hair above his navel? (If he has any there, and if you find it so fascinating... just talking out loud here...) Shut up Cac, not talking to you
Have YOU ever taken the time, to explore, at your leisure... what YOU like to do, or not... with him... or not with him? Maybe yourself...???? Because you were feeling erotic and he was laying there, maybe watching?
Just because that is what you decided YOU wanted to do, in that moment?
I'm kind of hurt that you guys all think that FSG is so out of my league that he must just be planning on using me for some kind of fetishtic release or sexual notch marking or something like that.