Sorry for hijacking your thread Mojo. Congrats on the new digs.
Hijackers always welcome on Air Mojo. All of the girls in my family are very easy on / easy off sexually but my married sister is LD relative to her H and in kind of the same way you're describing. She has issues with her body because she has always been chubby and she is a very Type A high anxiety SuperMom type. So her marital sex life became "Okay, we got 5 minutes between Mommy and Me and the neighborhood block party I organized. Let's get our bi-weekly f*ck/orgasms in. No need to take off more clothing then strictly necessary for the business at hand."
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
