Starting to get it.... my 3rd thread

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Ann, You are trying so hard and trying everything you can think of so I'm sure you will see the light at the end of the tunnel some day soon if you find what switch to turn on.

There seems to be a catch 22 here ... You do not find him attractive because he's insecure. And you've got to get him to feel secure so you'll find him attractive.

So some questions (pardon me if you've already answered them in your threads): Why did H file the D? What was he feeling insecure about before then? Is there something besides the EA that also contributes to his insecurity now? What attracted you to H in the first place?