Show up on Ann25's thread, and give a male perspective. Now. In saying this... I know you might be thinking... what male perspective? I'm game... that's all it takes...
I'd like you to think about it, though. There is a dif. And you... saying it, as opposed to me... to say someone like Cac... might make a dif.
For you, it is going to be very slight. No offense Miss IC, it is very real... but IC... really think about it.... think about the dif you may have noticed, even if you THOUGHT you did nothing dif... but you did.
I am just not getting this at all. Bunny, monkey, sand box, due diligence, soiled, test things. Just. Not. Getting. It.
I did see your post on Ann's thread. Don't get that either. It must be me. I can read all the words, I know they're English, but not making sense.
This is what I can tell you after reading a bit on the Peace website. I have always been O-oriented. Always. Even when I was super LD. When we had sex, I was going for that O. I used to think I was more O oriented than cac. He was willing to take time, but, me, I was going for that O. I didn't know when I'd get my next one, so this one had to count. But I was LD and most of the time I didn't feel like having sex. I could have had an O whenever I wanted (via IC) but chose not to. When I did get that O there would be none of what the HD/PT folks describe. I'd feel like HP wrote about last year when she went thru a more LD phase: sated, done, full. No desire for more.
None of that makes sense to me.
I'm still O-oriented but because I feel more sexual now than I did in the past, I'm not in such a rush anymore. We have more variety now and I'm enjoying the ride more.
Corri, I see how you are...putting the IC man on the spot!! Ok, but not tonight....very long day and....well...I'm whooped! I'm trying my best to be awake for when Miss IC gets home but it ain't lookin' too promising
So sorry, my man. No pressure. Whenever and ifever you get time. But in my asking, I know full well I might be breaking some man code... something you just don't GIVE UP. But you did. And you are still breathing.... so
I'm your biggest non-family fan. And you need your rest.
I'm still O-oriented but because I feel more sexual now than I did in the past, I'm not in such a rush anymore. We have more variety now and I'm enjoying the ride more.
Really.
Cac. Where are you my man? Can the board feel his collective squirm?
Cac?! I'm sure you should do this discuss with Lil..... no one but me. Maybe not Lil. She was never Ld. Maybe Miss IC... maybe Ms. Cac... maybe.... oh yah... maybe Ms. Nop... tee hee...
{Re corri} I did see your post on Ann's thread. Don't get that either. It must be me.
It's not you. Corri has a way of being cryptic that I frequently don't understand either. It's like a code I can't crack... like some words have been left out, and I have to guess what they are. It's possible that others don't understand either, but they don't want to speak up. Or maybe it's just you and me who want things to be spelled out clearly so we don't misunderstand.
IC, I just bought one of those "alarm" clocks that wakes you up with a light that gets gradually brighter. I'm testing it tomorrow morning.
Sorry for hijacking your thread Mojo. Congrats on the new digs.
Hijackers always welcome on Air Mojo. All of the girls in my family are very easy on / easy off sexually but my married sister is LD relative to her H and in kind of the same way you're describing. She has issues with her body because she has always been chubby and she is a very Type A high anxiety SuperMom type. So her marital sex life became "Okay, we got 5 minutes between Mommy and Me and the neighborhood block party I organized. Let's get our bi-weekly f*ck/orgasms in. No need to take off more clothing then strictly necessary for the business at hand."
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
