I am just not getting this at all. Bunny, monkey, sand box, due diligence, soiled, test things. Just. Not. Getting. It.
I did see your post on Ann's thread. Don't get that either. It must be me. I can read all the words, I know they're English, but not making sense.
This is what I can tell you after reading a bit on the Peace website. I have always been O-oriented. Always. Even when I was super LD. When we had sex, I was going for that O. I used to think I was more O oriented than cac. He was willing to take time, but, me, I was going for that O. I didn't know when I'd get my next one, so this one had to count. But I was LD and most of the time I didn't feel like having sex. I could have had an O whenever I wanted (via IC) but chose not to. When I did get that O there would be none of what the HD/PT folks describe. I'd feel like HP wrote about last year when she went thru a more LD phase: sated, done, full. No desire for more.
None of that makes sense to me.
I'm still O-oriented but because I feel more sexual now than I did in the past, I'm not in such a rush anymore. We have more variety now and I'm enjoying the ride more.
