With the way your husband has treated you, I'd say you have fair reason to be angry at him. Just be sure that it is really your anger, not proxied from other people.
Good point, Dom. Yeah, this anger is not proxied; in fact, if someone is too harsh regarding H, I will side with him and explain that he is going thru 'something' blah blah blah.
And wow- "first year". Yikes. You have a lot of patience and must really love your wife and value your family.
Oh and MaxP- 20 months before you can have a divorce??! I mean, I think they give out divorces too easily where I live (90 days, no fault) but sheesh- having to wait that long!!
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing