I strongly suspect that blackfoot and Stig and Deida would tell me, "They're not crazy; they're women." They'd be right, but at the moment "crazy" works for me.
And what I would say to BF or Stig would be that there are plenty of "non-crazy" people with XX chromosomes out there but you guys don't "see" those people as f*ckable females. "Crazy" = "Signaling sexual availability".
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
