I truly meant date, not sex. I assume you were just trying to point at the "what's good for the goose, is good for the gander" isn't always the best way to approach decisions and that you needed to use sex as the extreme example to get your point across.
I don't really feel guilty, per se, with regard to what H would think. He has said "you can go out on dates, too". Of course, he probably rests pretty easily thinking I would never actually go out on a date. I actually would feel guilty for whomever I would go out with because I am not really "serious dating" material. I guess if I make it clear that I am not looking for a LTR and they still want to meet, then that is their decision.
I am getting more and more moments of anger towards H (as opposed to just sadness). I guess we'll see how tomorrow goes.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
