Thanks TB. As I pointed out to my W last night, time is a great healer and there is no telling where the 2 of us might be in a few years. If we get back together, it will be a new R.

I wrote a cheer up card for W today along with returning some of the pictures of herself and us that I had in my office. I explained in the card that no matter which way we go, that I will still be a friend that she can talk to anytime or provide a shoulder she can cry on. Nine years of marriage is not something one can just throw away and forget.