Corri, correct me if I'm wrong but it's not really about the web-site...I think it's more along the lines of figuring out what YOU like and going with that. Let me use LustforLife as an example (Hope she doesn't mind}. LFL KNOWS what kind of sex she wants, what she is after....it's TOTALLY different than what is on the web-site. The web-site is not some magical sex technique that is going to suddenly make your sex life wonderful. For me it worked, it's what I want....for others...eh, it might not do anything for them.
