"something suddenly came up." (any Brady Bunch fans out there?)

I think you should go, since you told him you would. Maybe you can cut it short for something fun like, "I'm sorry, I only have 1hr, because I have a skydiving class to go to."

Me 36
Husband 35
D5
S2
separated:
10/29/07-present
Served divorce papers 1/22/09
"When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."