Long and Bumpy Road #3

[Startingover2]

Well, just as I suspected his motives are not genuine.

Me: What changes exactly are you proposing?
H: Your insecure and we both need to feel secure. We are going ot have a baby, its pretty simple. Or it should be.
Me: Yes, its about insecurity, but alot more as well. I am still not understanding the changes you are talking about.
H: Well baby can either grow up in 2 families or one. I am not giving you the power in this so you really don't have to have an attitude. Just remember, I am her dad.
Me; Just let me know when you are willing to be 100% open, honest, sincere and trustworthy. Nothing less. we can sit down and talk.

It may sound bad but I have heard this tune from him a thousand times. He is worried about me shutting him out, and its all about power or control. I am just at the point to where it has to be right and proven or I won't go back there again. Sure Im insecure...he lies, cheats, manipulates.

Ugggh.