Get Me on a Smoother Ride.....Need Advice, Part 11

[Rob1231]

Sue, hon, I'm sorry - I know exactly how that feels.

I'm not going to swing a 2x4 at you, but I will propose a question to ask yourself in the future. You're at a point now where it seems like you know everything worth knowing - probably more than you need to, really. So, the next time you get the chance to peek at his email, try to pause and ask yourself: WHY do I want to look at this cr@p? Will looking at this help me save my marriage? Will it help me build up my PMA? Will it help me grow and be happy and strong?

I know how addicting it is watch the train wreck. I've done that same rubbernecking myself. But, to continue the analogy, slowing down to look at it just keeps you on the road to your destination that much longer.

Sometimes the hardest battles to win are the ones you fight when no one else is watching. Quitting snooping is tough - but you are a strong person! (((Hugs!)))