i plan to back way off (move in with my parents)...lrt or after lrt...i think that is all i have left because she won't even admit she is having an A. She won't even admit she was in Paris. I am not going to push for more info., but at this point i am leaning towards leaving. I may be making a mistake but staying home has not yielded any results so far. knowing what i know right now, i would feel like a doormat if i stayed.
i figure i have 48 hrs, to decide and we are supposed to talk this weekend. she will probably spell out what she wants going forward and i will probably agree.