I dont think it has anything to do with my W being Asian - she shows the same WAW symptoms of many others I read about on this forum. My W has had some email conversations with a male friend she used to know Thailand but that was platonic. My W has more interest in older caucasian men she meets in bars here in the USA.

My W was also so committed to me and our family and then something changed drastically that I cant figure out. I think it is that she got a job and started going out clubbing with co-workers and developed an addiction to the attention she was getting from the men in bars.

Can you communicate with her mother or nephew? I so wish I could talk with my MIL. My W has hardly talked much with her own mother since this was all found out. Her mother has pretty much disowned her.