Michelle - I am so impressed with how well you're handling things and keeping it together at work and such, with everything you have going on.
Glad you're enjoying being back to the internship, and congrats on the great grades!!
About what you need to do to "work on the M" right now - I think the best thing you can do is NOT work on it at the moment. You can't really do that without a willing partner, unfortunately. But it is a good idea to look for some other 180s to try - even if you're the only one who notices right now. Make it a point to go out and do something fun and NOT school or work focused at least X nights per week or month, maybe??
As to your H - I am surprised he has been SO uncommunicative with you. Do you have any idea why?? Why are you worried about him?
Maybe on the PIN.. you could try email or IM. They're impersonal, but they're better than no contact at all at this point. Worth a try to see if he'll respond, I think.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread