I left my fiance about a month ago. She moved out before Christmas and I feel like a huge weight has been lifted off my shoulders. Actually, I became completely detached from her close to 6 months ago.
I vividly remember the tense conversations, the staying up to all hours due to the rejection, pacing the floors at night. The resentment was so intense.
We were together three years and attended 20+ counseling sessions together. I heard every excuse or concern in the world.
I quit pressuring her but in the end I lost desire, respect and was just pissed off! Her list would continually grow and grow. Looking back now I should of left sooner. But I loved her so much that I wanted to give her every opportunity.
During those three years she never made me any promises or say that she would try harder. It was simply a passive aggressive attitude even with all the counseling sessions! It was terrible so I know the pain you have been through.
Now I can focus my time and money on my 4 kids. They live 6 hours away and I am taking them to the mountains this weekend. I am 47 years old and was divorced 3 years ago.
I think the exercising help me keep my sanity!! All the weight lifting and walking.
I wish you well and hope she turns around. From my experience she will not. Sorry so blunt.
