Is it possible to push too much? I really think living together will help us rebuild...admittedly I made a mistake by moving out but I just don't understand (rationally) why W won't let me move back in. When I ask if there is some requirement to moving back in..at first it was "you have to see a counselor"; then it was I need to be convinced...it seems like it will go on forever and we won't really get to rebuild when we live apart....