For me the greatest help has been in realizing that there are other people out there who are feeling the same overwhelming emotions, that I am not going insane,
Especially in our case where we chose not to tell anyone about the A and all that, I have no one to talk to. Even if I did, no one would understand it truly unless they have been through what we have.
In addition I have met a true soul mate here who has helped me beyond description. that is limbo and in her situation the M is coming back together and the old H she married is coming back.
Without this, there would be one less mouth to feed, OM and I would be in jail, just kidding, but it has helped me immensely, especially when feeling down,
I sometimes feel a little bad in a way posting a happy or success story because I know how much other people are hurting and suffering but perhaps that is what we should do, to show how much good truly comes out of here.
