My W is the one who moved out. I think the fact that she really misses being in the house does work in my favor. Every time she has come over, she stays a long time and initiates hand-holding and hugging. I've accepted this but tried not to be overly enthusiastic. When she has brought up the R and we're away from the house, though, she says whenever she thinks of moving back she feels trapped. I've tried to validate her feelings and then say it's too early to think about that.

She's going to stay in the house while I'm gone for a long weekend, then we go to MC next Tuesday.

lodo


Divorced: 10/26/08