LOL-regarding my guy friend. It's more like he is a brother who is mad that I keep doing 'stupid' things. He is married with a child and loves his wife very much. I would say he is more like my mother in that he can't understand WHY I would let myself be treated this way. I told him that I had a profile on yahoo that was getting some attention, but that until I had the sitch a little more under control w/H I didn't want to go on a date. His point was that these guys are actually *interested* in meeting me, etc. And that my H is trying to get away from me. (This was before H called and asked for a date.) He is very pleasantly surprised that H did this.
I live about 30-40 minutes from downtown Seattle. The Wild Ginger is sort of an Asian/Thai fusion restuarant with AMAZING food. Then there is a seafood restaurant on the Pier called the Crab Cracker that if you order this certain meal, comes and dumps it all on your table. It's got andoille sausage,potatoes, corn on the cob, crab, shrimp, mussels...you wear a bib and dig in. Of course there is the Space Needle, Experience Music Project, SAM (seattle art musuem)--tons of stuff to do. OH! and the Underground Tour! I've lived here all my life and finally went last year- what a blast. Part of old Seattle is underneath the current seattle.
There is a hot glass studio down town where you can take glass blowing classes. Actually, knowing Seattle, there is probably more than one place to do that.
Part of me feels like if H has an active profile on match.com, I am also afforded that same "luxury". H has already been out on dates; I have not. He is out 'shopping' and I am purposefully keeping myself 'ignorant'. And why would I do that on purpose? Because if I am ignorant of the possibilities out there, I am better able to stay true to my marriage. But, what marriage? Gah!
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing