Don't know why this thread is still in piecing, when it ends I'll move it.
Because you don't know what will happen. You can move toward your goals (and I highly recommend that) of you think will happen, what you envision, even what you want to happen, but you do not know what is going to happen.
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Why can't she grow up? I am.
Why should she? What incentive does she have to grow up?
F, got drawn in talking about your wife.
Several things gleaned from your posts.
"Clearly, Obviously..." Words like those, aren't. Those are words used when you're trying to convince someone your right and they are wrong. They are argument words, words used to start fights, and seldom if ever used in finishing one. The 'superior' person will use them to 'prove' points.
True selfless acts, and selfless love, doesn't breed resentment for not being recognized or reciprocated. Resentment comes from wanting to be recognized in some fashion but not getting it.
I like the changes you have started to implement. I hope they help bring about a sense of self to you. I am sure they will.
I'm stealing everything from "Clearly..." to "....not getting it".
That's good stuff, Jack.
Frank, you sound better today and still headed in the right direction. Nobody ever said it was easy. But I assure you it will be worth it.
