Yeah, I totally know what you mean. Like I just told Cat on her thread, being the LBS, we have learned completely different lessons than the WAS does during the whole D sitch. I know my H is completely recommitted, however, he never had any reason to *learn* the way I did how much work an M really takes. I still feel like I'm doing a lot of the legwork, however, I guess it's worth it. We managed to save our M's, right? I go back & forth a lot on the trust issue though. I think I know in my mind that he doesn't have any reason to cheat again, but sometimes my heart just still hurts from the pain it went through b/c of the infidelities and makes me question things.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
