That sucks, one more thing you get to *handle* gracefully, but it could be worse, right?

I know I've found that I feel like I'm the one *doing the work* in my M now. H is obviously completely recommitted, but b/c I was the one on this side of the whole D bomb, I learned how much work an M really takes, etc. They don't learn the lessons we do unfortunately.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10