FLTC, in some way his stuff makes some sense to me. I guess you have to take everything you read and process them instead of take them for what they are literally. I think I can relate with what he's saying at some points. For years I've been quite passive and not take charge of things. Some of it is my personality, some of it I just want to make her happy and just left all the choices to her instead of be more assertive. New Years Eve she flipped out at me because I wasn't taking control of things. Long story.... Lately I've been presented with a few opportunities to work on taking charge of things and I've done that and W has definitely noticed and really likes it. I guess maybe it's just doing a 180 or something different. But I'm doing it for me. Be less passive and more assertive in life.
But I think the main point I see here is this "I'm not in love with you" has nothing to do with actual love. In a round about way he's saying that love is a choice, and being "in love" is not the same as you truly loving someone.
Somehow I don't think Brad Pitt has to do much work to get his woman. It seems he's not much of an "alpha male" consider the psycho he's running with right now. :P
M: 31 W: 31 M: 7 T: 8 S:4 D:2 Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one S on 9/2/07 W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.
