You just went to beating yourself up in a different direction. Take it easy on yourself. We all have something to do with ous WAS, but every one of those Cunningham letters will have you kicking yourself for not being the perfect "alpha male" or being "nuaghty" all the time or being "too predictable" and "boring; the killer of all romance". Not all of us are Brad Pitt, dude! We have lives and raised kids and worked more than one job at times! Sorry, the Cunningham report is helpful, but don't set your watch by it!
