Thank you all for the advice. I don't have much time now as i just spent forever venting about stuff on my thread in newcomers, but just wanted to say i appreciate it and I'll answer the questions later. \:\) thanks!!

Miss IC - Thank you for sharing your sitch. I do think i need to figure out what i want. I'm not even half sure.

corri - what is that website, if you don't mind sharing again.

cemar - thank you for the book recommendation. Actually, I think that is the furthest from our problems. I've actually asked him if he thinks i focus too much on the kids and not enough on him and he said that he didn't feel that way. I suppose he could be lying, but who knows.

If i can't fall in love... I'd like to fall in chocolate! ~ Author Unknown

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