You be the best soonerlady you can possibly be. For you.
You mentioned a few posts back that you guys weren't good communicators and didn't discuss your problems. And asked if you should suggest that you'd like to talk about some things with him.
My advice - don't ask, too much pressure. Just do it. A little at a time. Hard to do since he went dark on you, but trust me, you WILL get an opportunity.
