We have agreed to use a counselor so we will see. I just don't think living apart helps in trying to rebuild. I would like to see us move back in together and work on making it better rather than apart and trying to see if we are to remain married.
I've seen someone who has said that I'm not "depressed" so while I am/was confused about my own happiness it came to me that I'm happy when I make myself happy and my W isn't the sole source of that.
