I spoke briefly to H last night. I was in an upbeat mood about my day and was in such a great mood although talking with him always makes me a bit depressed of course with his I've moved on and last night it was "We are no longer involved". I try to detach, but it is very hard, b/c let's face it, I am an overly sensitive person!!! I asked him about seeing his therapist and out of (great) curiousity asked him what the therapist thought about his relationship with the OW since she was married with kids. He said the therapist thought it was great. I think that is really weird. I realized either he is snowing the therapist or the therapist is weird. H has a history of liking (when we went to therapists in past) to manipulate them which I think is strange since I believe seeing them is to get help for yourself, but he likes to manipulate them (he has laughed afterwards about doing so). If this therapist ever realizes he is doing so, he will probably just stop seeing him. So I do not hold out much hope that he will get help for his anger and relationship issues(including ours) at this point. Sad I guess.
