Well, I certainly * learned my lesson * and don't plan on going back to being LD again. I think we can always * learn * from each other, bounce ideas off each other, get feedback on what we have found works/doesn't work. Unfortunately for some, if both partners in an M aren't willing to work on *things,* nothing is going to ever change, at least not permanently. If both partners don't realize how much literally WORK an M takes to keep alive, said M's are going to end up back in the same rut they were in.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10