Well, I certainly * learned my lesson * and don't plan on going back to being LD again. I think we can always * learn * from each other, bounce ideas off each other, get feedback on what we have found works/doesn't work. Unfortunately for some, if both partners in an M aren't willing to work on *things,* nothing is going to ever change, at least not permanently. If both partners don't realize how much literally WORK an M takes to keep alive, said M's are going to end up back in the same rut they were in.


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10