In Sep 07 I told my W that I was going to leave and separate. I needed to find out what made me happy and why I was unhappy. We've been cordial, nice and friendly most of the time. We have two D9/12 and have kept them in mind this whole time. We live separately now. We've both said some hurtful things over the last few months and I'd take them back if I could.

I want to come back and now W says she doesn't trust me, doesn't know if she wants to be Married but want to "see" if it will work out. I know I've hurt her. I've apologized. I've explained. I want to come back and work though it all but this constant lack of trust, lack of committment makes me wonder if we ever will. Any thoughts?