BT, you are pushing my friend, you need to stop and stop right the h-ll now. All you are doing by pushing is setting yourself up for disappointment AND pushing her away.

So what she didn't ask. Don't read into everything because you'll drive yourself insane if you do. Trust me I did this way too long and it only has caused things to drag out longer. Next time y'all have a discussion like that just say, great I hope you have a wonderful day and enjoy your tennis. Or something like that. Better yet don't ask because she probably thinks you are prying.

I can't stress enough the importance of not analyzing every little thing. Just know this, she's in pain just like you. The healing process takes time and rehashing old wounds or continually opening up the fresh ones for analysis just prolongs the healing.


If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa

Me-44
W-42
S-11/8/06, D-9/12/08
M-19 1/2 yrs
D13, D11
Bomb-10/06