Sun Facing Reality 5

[Lissie]

Brue,

Compared to what H has been saying to me, to be honest, ya'll are rookies at it.

WOW. I know I am a rookie at it, I know that many are a rookie at it, But Brue. Nope, not so much.

She has been thru stuff, that makes what i have been thru a walk in the park.

So when she says these things to you, it's b/c she has been thru it. She hasn't pulled it out of a hat.

I am sorry you are so frusterated. I know how much that sucks.

I know how it can just get so down.

I hope you start feeling alot better. But just know that when the peeps post to you, with concern and honesty it is b/c they have been there, and they don't want to see you suffer anymore.

Walk a mile in my shoes and then tell me please how to NOT be negative. How to focus on the positive. If you know how, I'm all ears.

Brue has, and that is why she posted, but you didn't want to hear it.

As far as complaining, I have to be honest. Every time I complain someone tells me how negative I am. I'm a bit tired of it. Like I said, walk a mile in my shoes first. I may have made myself vulnerable by staying home all those years, but I never deserved what happened to me. But, does anyone deserve to be hurt?

And i don't see NOT ONE person saying you deserved any of this.

Not one.

If you want to complain, go ahead Sun, but I thought the R's here with friends, were open, and were not the ones , where you have to walk on eggshell, b/c sheeeeeeeesh we had enuff of that with our spouses.

I see the peeps that posted to you all of them, trying to help, sorry you didn't take it that way.