John Updike in one of his books wrote something like "You know the relationship is about over when you start f*cking each other with vegetables." It's not that there's anything wrong with using items from the produce department for sexual pleasure, it's just that there is a limit to how long or hard you can sing a song of experience or how far you can push the excitement factor. You have to be able to sing a song of innocence and renew emotional connection both as an individual or in a relationship or you'll burn out or become jaded or hard. Maybe that's why I say it's important for a guy to be strong puppy sometimes.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
