So I receive the daily email from Cunningham. Today he said something interesting:
"How many times have you heard things like "I love you, but I'm not 'in love' with you..."??? That "in love" thing isn't love at all; it's attraction. With it, life is grand, a fun and intimate adventure, and without it, it's a boring cesspool, because it is truly what makes the world of relationships go 'round. Attraction brings you together and keeps you together, while love adds the friendship, respect, trust, and loyalty that makes the relationship exclusive, strong during tough times, and intimate in all the non-physical ways necessary to keep you together for the long haul and weather the storms together."
That certainly puts things in perspective it seems. Basically we LBS may have done things to kill that attraction the WAS had for us and we get the ILUBNILWY.
M: 31 W: 31 M: 7 T: 8 S:4 D:2 Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one S on 9/2/07 W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.
