5:30 so far and not a singe call from h. I wonder if he even remembers it's my birthday. This sucks...
Oh, and Dave, sorry about the bomb being dropped on your birthday. That's terrible! Can't they wait 1 day in order to not ruin your birthday? Not even closely related, but I had a bf that waited until midnight to break up with me so he wouldn't ruin my college graduation! So thoughtful.
My STBXW has impeccable timing. The previous bomb was on father's day. And the latest one was right before xmas. I think the one for my bday she would've waited if I didn't sense something was wrong and pushed for an answer. I think anyone would be wondering what is going on after being ignored for an entire week.
As far as for the 7 principles of love. 1. the first section talked about most MC are whack and etc etc. Take that with a grain of salt. I was reading that while my W was asking to go see MC. Well, I should've done that. Instead, I said, "John Gottman" said most MC are quack and it may make it worse so I won't go. Probably would've saved the M if we did.... I wish I wasn't reading that book at that time and instead DR. 2. Of course after I did that she refuses to go through the book with me. I think it might be a good book for piecing, but maybe not so much for trying to get them to that point. The book pretty much requires both of you committed to work on.
M: 31 W: 31 M: 7 T: 8 S:4 D:2 Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one S on 9/2/07 W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.