Originally Posted By: ms ladybug
5:30 so far and not a singe call from h. I wonder if he even remembers it's my birthday. This sucks...

Oh, and Dave, sorry about the bomb being dropped on your birthday. That's terrible! Can't they wait 1 day in order to not ruin your birthday?
Not even closely related, but I had a bf that waited until midnight to break up with me so he wouldn't ruin my college graduation! So thoughtful.


My STBXW has impeccable timing. \:\) The previous bomb was on father's day. And the latest one was right before xmas. I think the one for my bday she would've waited if I didn't sense something was wrong and pushed for an answer. I think anyone would be wondering what is going on after being ignored for an entire week.

As far as for the 7 principles of love. 1. the first section talked about most MC are whack and etc etc. Take that with a grain of salt. I was reading that while my W was asking to go see MC. Well, I should've done that. Instead, I said, "John Gottman" said most MC are quack and it may make it worse so I won't go. Probably would've saved the M if we did.... I wish I wasn't reading that book at that time and instead DR. 2. Of course after I did that she refuses to go through the book with me. I think it might be a good book for piecing, but maybe not so much for trying to get them to that point. The book pretty much requires both of you committed to work on.


M: 31
W: 31
M: 7 T: 8
S:4 D:2
Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one
S on 9/2/07
W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.

My sitch:
http://tinyurl.com/3dqw93