So yesterday H left for Denver. As he left said, "See you on Sunday" so I guess he IS coming home for a couple days before he moves into Apt. Anyway I took "See you Sunday" to mean I wouldn't talk to him until then. Which is fine, he has said he needs time and space. But at noon yesterday I checked my phone over lunch in case daycare called (D's only had 2 days there), and he had sent a TM, that he made it to Denver and wondered how Day 2 back at work was going. Since he asked a ? I sent a brief reply about how I am sooo loving work. I am, and I think he'll like that bc he has told me I need my own life, not just him. So that was that, & he called last night, no TM, an actual call. Wanted to know how the day went, how I was doing. Talked 5 min and then he had to leave for dinner. Said he'd call later, but didn't, and I didn't call him. This a.m. H calls my cell at 7:30. Wants to know if I am on way to work. I tell him no, it's a snow day so school is closed, but I sub again tomorrow. I put S on the phone for about a minute, then get back on to finish up. H says he just wanted to see what I was up to, and how it was going. I say just fine and leave it at that. Upbeat the whole time but not clingy, didn't try to prolong the call or anything. After hanging up I realized that since he called my cell thinking I was headed to work, he called just to talk to ME, not S or D. Wonder what that means? Either he is still interested in me, or he is checking to see if my GAL-work-fun-happy thing is for real, like to see if it will last more than a day or two. Or maybe he just wants reassurance that I will be fine without him if he decides to leave me? Definitely hope it isn't the last option. Any ideas?
