You sound very good. Keep doing what you are doing - seeing your counselor, working and taking care of the kidlets. 35 is VERY young, you have a nice life ahead of you.
My situation is status quo. I hate to be a complainer, but it really is going to take time to sort my mess out. Divorce is moving forward, W and I are civil to each other which is a +, I'm still crashing with a friend and work sucks. A lot of my issues are financial. My W and I own a very expensive home with a big mortgage. Until the house is sold, I am stuck.
