Choc: SO sorry to hear that. I was thinking about you just this morning. Specifically, I was thinking that, if I found out today that MsHdog was having an affair, there would be no way in hell that I'd even lift a finger to get her to come back. I saluted you and your strength and determination, but saw that it was path I would not take in my own situation.
Thanks to everyone for the hugs, salutes, etc. No messages or letters or emails delivered, but Burg's idea of experiencing my new relationships with myself and with my wife has been the general order of the day. He said "enjoying" the new relationships, but, right now, there's more of a "being in the moment" sensation rather than anything particularly enjoyable.