A+ honey. I called you out because it sometimes helps to have to repeat it all back, kwis?
Ann:
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I don't know what my problem is. All I know is that a couple years ago, i was practically begging for sex and now I would rather avoid it all together. I'm not attracted to H and I guess I'm disconnecting the emotional aspect of ML from sex. I can go through the act of intercourse. I can handle that without anything else, but when it comes to the stuff that more emotionally connects me to H (kissing and foreplay stuff etc.) I just feel wierd about it. I do a mental cringe when he starts trying to kiss and grab at me. I don't know what my problem is.
How 'safe' do you feel with your H?
When he tries to kiss and grab you, do you stop him, slow him down... take control of the sitch and lead him through what you want?
Do you ever feel erotic? Do you ever feel relaxed and at ease with sex, or do you always feel you have a mission to accomplish?
