I'm new to this whole deal (only 6 months since bomb) and not really in a position to give any advice since I'm still learning to do the things myself.
But I will say this, you're a good person Frank. Keep going, you have a good set of friends watching your back, ready to help (with a 2x4 when needed).
Me: 35 W: 34 S8 & S5 M: 11 IDLY: 08/2007
"Freedom's just another word for nothing left to lose" - Janis Joplin, Me and Bobby McGee
"Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, it is about dancing in the rain!"